Diana & Damien — the timeline
Diana & Damien — a real married couple sharing the most loving hardcore porn on the internet. Eight years of sex tapes, photo sets, travel vlogs and our love story, in one timeline.
Our Story
Our Mission
Is it weird for a porn site to have a mission statement? Absolutely. But we’re trying something a little different here 🌺
Whether you grew up very conservative or very liberal, you probably heard that porn is inherently evil.
We disagree.
Addiction to porn can be a problem. Treating people like objects can be a problem. Putting virtual sex above real intimacy can be a problem…
But the act of sharing and consuming consensual sex is not.
Our mission is to show the world that watching others have sex is not only natural and healthy… but has the potential for beauty.
In that spirit, we want to show what real-life sex looks like… the good, the bad, and the awkward. We want to show that being a good lover takes patience and lots of communication… and the end result can be incredible.
We want to inspire other brave, loving couples to share their own intimate moments with the world… and to inspire other sex workers to pull down the mask and reveal just a bit more of themselves in their work. For younger viewers, we want to avoid giving them unhealthy notions of what sex should be while raising their standards for future lovers. For older viewers, we hope to spark memories of past love.
We want to make our work as accessible as possible. As long as we’re making enough money to support ourselves with the truly incredible content on Diana’s OnlyFans page, we’ll be posting the majority of our sex tapes on PornHub, Fansly, and reddit for free.
And finally… it is our mission to make the hottest hardcore content you’ll ever see on the internet 🔥
If You Know Us Personally
If you are a family member, close friend, or social media acquaintance who accidentally stumbled across our work, please take our mission statement to heart before you judge us too harshly. We’re not here to make a quick buck or to satisfy exhibitionist desires (not that there’s anything wrong with that!), we simply recognize our unique position in life and want to use it to put something positive into the world.
We appreciate that you don’t share our content with others who know us… because this is going to be HARD to explain to our moms!
How We Started Making Sex Videos
It all started with Diana’s dogs! Her family was forced to move across the state and wasn’t allowed to bring their pups to their new apartment… and Diana was heartbroken. About six months into our relationship, Damien tracked down the new owners and asked to borrow the dogs for a few days before Christmas as a surprise for Diana. She loved it! That night, the four of us sat in bed for hours… and on a whim, Damien turned on his phone and recorded our time together. It was a platonic video and we didn’t think much of it at the time.
But then Diana left for college. We made the tough decision to try a long-distance relationship… and one of the ways we coped was by watching that silly video with the dogs.
The next time we were together, we recorded more videos. And we treasured them just as much. When we finally decided to have sex for the first time, we didn’t hesitate to hit record… and we’ve been filming ourselves ever since!
In April of 2021, Diana asked for Damien’s thoughts about the growing OnlyFans craze. We’re both relatively uninhibited people and we needed some extra money for our vacation… so we decided to give it a shot 🔥 After all… we had 59 videos ready to go!
The money wasn’t great… but the feedback was tremendous. People were connecting to our content. And we realized we had to keep going.
Dealing with Vaginismus
We made the decision early on to be as honest as possible with our content. That meant Diana had to address her struggle with vaginismus… a condition that basically makes her vagina so tight that intercourse can be painful. If you’ve seen our early videos, you know we tend to start slow. It can take anywhere from 5 to 30 minutes before she’s ready to go! You may also notice that Damien checks in with her A LOT. This is because communication is absolutely essential to managing the pain. Diana is incredibly open about her experiences and will respond to anyone who reaches out on OnlyFans. We have several posts under the label “vaginismus” detailing with the ways she manages the pain and what it takes to have a satisfying sex life.
If you or your partner have any questions, don’t hesitate to message her on OnlyFans. And if you need a male perspective, hit up Damien at softboydamien@gmail.com!
Maintaining Authenticity
There’s no question that the authenticity of our original 59 videos was their primary selling point. As we began making new content knowing others would be watching… we realized it would take a conscious effort to maintain as much authenticity as possible.
Our biggest “rule” is that we never have sex unless we actually want it in the moment. That means we don’t have sex as part of a job… we simply post the videos we already wanted to make.
We do, however, love to hear what people want to see! We have an ongoing list of fan recommendations, and if we’re ever in the mood to spice things up, we’ll find something on the list, make sure we’re both comfortable with it, and try it out!
On a side note: if you’ve seen Diana’s photo sets, you’ll know that we don’t actually have a 100% commitment to authenticity. These shoots are the one area where we give ourselves freedom to go crazy 💫 We do want to make it clear that these photos are not reality. They are staged and edited to be sexy, and are meant to reflect our creativity instead of the pure authenticity in our videos.
Our #1 Priority
Our relationship is our first and foremost priority. So far, we have never had to compromise our values to share our lives with the world. In fact, it’s been the complete opposite. You… yes, you reading this… have brought us closer as a couple. The two of us love talking about every thought that goes through our heads, and you have given us SO MUCH to discuss! You have also given us goals to work toward as a team… and it truly makes us feel like a #powercouple. Our communication is stronger, we’re growing more open-minded, and we’re more conscientious of our health and sex life. Also, this website has evolved into a beautiful archive of our entire sexual history… one we hope to keep forever… for your enjoyment, and for ours.
As long as sharing our sex continues to bring us closer together, we’ll be making amazing content and sharing it with the world!
We love you all,
Diana and Damien
From Tinder to an 8-Hour First Date!
"Best July 1 Ever"
2 The Night I Lost My Virginity
This is quite literally the most beautiful video we've ever taken.
28 Bridesmaid
We had just gotten back from a lovely wedding and couldn't wait until night for sex, so we had a quickie in the truck!
54 Plan B Creampie
This is another special video from a very special occasion. I didn't have an IUD yet and we decided to buy Plan B ahead of time so we could have sex without a condom for the very first time! We got a hotel and had an incredibly romantic evening ✨
My Very First Photoshoot
I had been talking to Damien about making an OnlyFans account for a few months but still hadn't pulled the trigger. Then I bought one of my very first lingerie sets... only $5 😂... and surprised Damien with these pics! I posted a couple on reddit and people seemed to like them, so I kept taking more 🤷♀️
Solo Videos
This is a collection of videos available only as a special pay-per-view on OnlyFans!
Wild Monogamy
Diana and Damien wrote Wild Monogamy to break the stereotypes and buck the taboos, to drag group sex from the fringes of "kink" into the mainstream, and to give healthy couples the tools they need to avoid the pitfalls. The book aims to prove group sex is not synonymous with cheating or open relationships but can be explored by monogamous couples to improve communication, trust, confidence, and love. Through 20 fast-paced chapters, Wild Monogamy covers every step from broaching the subject with your partner to breaking up with a third. You'll learn ethical ways to find sex friends, coping mechanisms for jealousy, what to do with all those fingers, tongues, and genitals, and countless other tips to help you capture this elusive experience while making every moment count. In addition to the steamy guide, Diana and Damien include 12 erotic stories from their best and worst adventures. Join them as they play sex games with Hudson and Chelsea, marvel at Gunn when he shows up in his pjs, and saunter half-naked through an orgy at an axe-throwing bar. Wild Monogamy focuses on couples in committed relationships, but is filled with advice for anyone looking to explore the pleasures of group sex!
Medium-format Photography
This is our sixth and final photo set from Australia and New Zealand, taken with a 60's film camera Damien got as a gift from a friend 💛 While many of them are hit-or-miss, the photos that do work are some of my all-time favorites! I hope you liked them too 🥰 If you do like them, you can download the full quality versions all in one file! (Link included on OF.)
244 Puerto Rico - Super Sexy POV
Damien and I were determined to use the VR headset under ideal conditions to finally try some *true POV* lovemaking. And I'm pretty sure you're gonna like it 🥰 In fact, VR or not, I'm adding this to my personal favorites 💛 There is so much here! A lot of hanging out naked, dripping wine on each other, 69ing on the couch, then I ride him for as long as I can, totally b*reback 😈 But we're not done yet! Even before we started I had already planned to take him to the bathroom and kitchen counters... and while I was definitely a bit sore the next day, it was absolutely worth it. Sfw Vlog
279 Beach Day and Butt Stuff
Okay… so this is the closest we’ve ever come to actual anal. BUT, even without the attempt, this is still a really, really good sex tape… definitely marking it as an all-time-favorite! First of all, this is easily the wettest I’ve ever been. We don’t even use lube for the first half, and I am DRIPPING. Also, we use the glass dildo. Since Damien loves it, I’m assuming others might love it too! There are three cameras going, but most of the video is from Damien’s POV. As for the anal attempt? Split-screen 💛 Finally… without overselling this video TOO much, this is also Damien’s biggest cumshot by far. Like… it shoots over my head 😂
No Bots, No Deepfakes: How We Use (and Don't Use) AI
Hey there, everybody! It’s kind of crazy how rarely we write blogs these days… but we have something we want to talk about and decided to do it here : ) We know the future is coming whether we like it or not. The rapid growth of AI will make some things much easier for many people, but will also present new and crazy challenges for the rest of the world. Since we’re known mostly for our authenticity, we wanted to let you know where we stand on the issue so you know exactly what you’re seeing when you watch our content. Here is a list of places you will never find AI: • Our Sex Tapes Our numbered sex tapes will always be 100% authentic from now until the day we stop sharing our relationship with the world. The only editing we have ever done and will ever do is cropping, trimming, and basic image adjustments like contrast, saturation, and color balance. Even back when we were blurring faces, we did it all by hand. • Our Messages We know many adult content creators use either human or AI assistants to respond to their subscribers. We have never done that and never will. If you’re one of the hundred people waiting for Diana to respond on OnlyFans, you know there isn’t a bot helping us out 😂 So if you've ever sent us a message and received a reply from Diana on OF or YouTube, or a reply from Damien on reddit or over email, that was really us at the keyboard, and it always will be. • All Written Copy We are both writers. Damien wrote a handful of novels in his previous life, and you already know we collaborated to write a book! We did all that before AI, and we won’t start using it now : ) • Medium-Format Photography We recently dropped a series of film photographs we’ve been taking on our vacations. Again, basic editing tools will be used for touch-ups, but never anything more. We also want to make it clear that we are not actually anti-AI! We’re both intrigued by the potential good AI can bring to the world, while simultaneously being cautious about the risks. In our personal lives, we used Claude Opus to read Diana’s entire genome and it has given us an understanding of her health issues that brought us both to tears. While we have plenty of skepticism, we will not deny its usefulness. These are the places where AI has shown up in our content: • Diana’s Photo Sets We only recently realized that some of the simple tools we use to touch up our pics use AI-assisted editing. Diana has talked several times about how our videos are 100% authentic, but our photos are filled with all kinds of staged artifice like makeup, costumes, filters, and blemish removal in post. We’ve even shared a couple “before and after” comparisons to show the difference. Nobody has ever asked or complained, but we just want to be clear that this artifice technically includes assistance from older versions of AI. • Website Imagery If you clicked around our old website, you saw several "animated" pictures of us together. These were all normal photos edited with a phone app that claimed to use AI. This was about four years ago, and while we don't regret playing around in the early stages of photo generation, we only have one image on the current iteration of our site, and have no plans to add any in the future. • Behind the Scenes Damien has used Claude Fable to help automate the creation of our Soft Archive chapters, as well as the newest versions of our websites. This is our favorite use of AI, and what we consider the most defensible. Two years ago, this site would have taken resources that only the big porn companies could afford. Now Damien can sit at home in his boxers and meet the same challenges for only $20 a month. We consider this to be a huge win for small businesses of all kinds, as well as individuals with big dreams. So far, that is the full extent of how we’ve interacted with this new technology, and we'll continue to be transparent about its use in our work. We know there's nothing we can do to stop AI-generated performers from becoming more and more prevalent in porn. What we *can* do is commit to being a human, AI-free alternative. We love you all, Diana and Damien ✨ Read the SFW version on dianaanddamienlife.com Read the full post
255 D&D's Super Spicy Q&A
We've been talking about this video for more than two years... and it's finally here! I'm not sure if it's the specific nature of our sex tapes or porn in general, but people ask A LOT of questions about what we do, why we do it, *how* we do it... and the size of various parts of our bodies. We started taking note of these questions early on... and—after we had the idea for this video—asked you guys for even *more* questions! Thankfully, you delivered! And allllll this time later... we finally have answers 🥰 The format was Damien's idea... and part of the reason it took so long to make! He meticulously added all of your questions into a slideshow and timed it out so we could make our answers EXTRA spicy 😉 Hopefully this is something you haven't seen before! Because I certainly haven't 😂 Since I'd only seen a few of the questions, and Damien hadn't seen them for more than a year, we had to answer them the best we could in the heat of the moment! After watching the video back, we decided some of our answers deserved a bit more nuance, so we added some text to help expand our thoughts. This was a lot of work, but I think it makes it more informative! Another little note: I may be *just a tad* weird for the first few questions... which you have obviously come to expect from me, but I think I may have been even weirder than normal 😂 I do eventually mellow out though... I swear! Since I reallllly like organization and making things easy for you, I typed out every category and every question and even went back through to find the timestamps for you! Instead of posting it all here, I had Damien make a little page for all the extra info: [our Q&A](/qa/) FINALLY... Damien exported this in two different file sizes and wants to know if anyone sees a difference! The second video is slightly higher quality 🥰 Let us know! THAT'S EVERYTHING! I reallyyyyy hope you all like it! If not, it was still a fun experiment 😂 Enjoy ✨
317 A Dramatic Reading of Mike Lee's Bill
You might have seen our one-minute response to Mike Lee's bill to ban porn... but we also wanted to show you the entire sex tape! It is probably INCREDIBLY un-sexy to hear this silly bill being read over and over, but all the in-between action was too good not to share 💛 I should warn you that we look and sound pretty silly throughout this entire video, but we had SO much fun making it, and we're very happy with the final product 🥰 And if you can't tell how turned on I was, stick around until the end for ROUND TWO... I think I counted three more orgasms!
