The Perfect Game for Threesomes
Have you considered having a threesome or foursome but are afraid about how to get things started? Maybe you’ve had group sex in the past, but things didn’t flow as well as you had hoped. After all, there are a LOT of people to satisfy, not to mention all those limbs!
But fear not. Diana and Damien have created a simple, DIY game to heighten any group sex adventure. And all you need is this website!
So keep reading to learn everything you need to play The Super-Spicy Group Sex Game… totally free!
The Origin of The Game
After months of talking about group sex, we finally matched with a nice couple on Tinder and set a date for a fun, sexy time. We immediately jumped online in search of icebreakers, sex games, or any fun ideas to help facilitate the experience…
But we found nothing.
So, with only a few hours before the couple arrived in our bed, Damien threw together a bunch of spicy actions, organized them into rounds, and grabbed a 12-sided die he hadn’t used in years. To our amazement, the game worked exactly as planned, and we had an amazing first group sex experience! Since there’s nothing really like this online, we decided to share it 💛 The game is featured in our book, Wild Monogamy.
Things To Know Before You Play
- The goal of the game to get three to four people acquainted with interacting physically with each other. It should provide a smooth, sensual experience that encourages exploration between all players. If the game works as intended, you won’t make it to the later rounds!
- The game works with any combination of genders and either three or four players.
- The game is played in a series of rounds with escalating sex acts.
- As with all sexual interactions, consent is vital! Before you play, let every player scan the Round 1 actions to approve of them. Then check in again before moving on to each additional round.
- Some of these actions will be difficult—if not impossible—to perform, especially when combined with actions that instruct you keep performing them until your next turn. Trying to make them work anyway can be both hilarious and insanely sexy.
- It might be a good idea to keep things slow, especially if one or more of the players will be exploring same-sex interactions for the first time. The build up and exploration are a big part of the fun!
- The best part about this game is how easily it can be modified. Feel free to copy and paste the parts you like and discard the parts you don’t. Ideally, everyone will want to interact with everyone else, but if there are couples with boundaries or restrictions between genders, you can simply leave those positions out of the game.
- You’ll see two links under each game type below, one for threesomes, one for foursomes. Click the appropriate link, and you’ll find all the rules as well as lists of spicy actions for every round.
Base Games
You’ll need to decide which base game works best for you. They’re merely a way to create random interactions. Any of them will get the job done! Also, all versions require a timer… a phone works great.
Dice
This is an easy version of the game that can be played anywhere, but you’ll probably want some kind of flat surface to roll the dice. The dice version does not guarantee every action will happen to everyone.
Requires: A 12-sided die (sold at game shops) and a coin for threesomes or a 6-sided die for foursomes.
Jenga
This variation requires a table, which isn’t as sexy as bed. However, it’s great if you want to drink at the same time! The Jenga version does not guarantee every action will happen to everyone.
Requires: A Jenga set.
Spinner
This is probably the most convenient variation when you’re actually playing, but be warned, it does require some annoying prep work! This is also the easiest version to play on a bed. The threesome variation of the spinner game is the only game that guarantees every action will happen to everyone.
Requires: A spinner app on your phone. The one we like is called “Daily Decision,” but there are several options.
Variations
There are an infinite amount of ways to play this game… we’re just here to get you started!
- If everyone likes to film their sex lives (like us!), you can add a rule that instructs anyone left out of an action to grab a camera and record the others. (Not recommended for couples who are just getting to know each other!)
- If you’re playing with two straight couples, you can sit 🌸/🍆🌸/🍆 and use the threesome action lists instead of the foursome lists. This means the actions will only have you interact with the people to your right and left, and never across.
If You’ve Played the Game…
Tell us how it went! And if you have any suggestions about how to improve it—or any typos we missed in the instructions—hit us up! We’re at dianaanddamien@gmail.com : )
And if you want to know more tips about having amazing group sex, check out our book!